Tuesday, June 10, 2014
170 Days
(170天)就是之前那個幫朋友做的小小的設計案子,但是很可惜不能參加。
(170 Day) The small project I was working on previously, but too bad I am unable to attend.
Tuesday, June 3, 2014
207 Days
(207天) 難忘的求婚
有了"鑽戒"之後就可以準備求婚了。女生都幻想著浪漫的驚喜求婚,男生都怕把計畫被搞砸,然後被念好幾年。
動作:基於西方文化影響,單膝下跪變成了求婚基本姿勢。在中古世紀王室封爵的時候武士就以單膝下跪來表示遵從 (就好像結婚後一樣…)。但如果你不想遵從或是不喜歡西方文化那你用鞠躬也可以。至於女生的基本動作就是張開嘴巴然後用兩隻手摀住嘴…我也不知道為什麼
地點:有人喜歡選第一次約會的地點,有人喜歡邀請親友團在餐廳,然後再找個朋友錄影。我建議找個旁邊沒有人的地方。這樣女生就比較沒有壓力說我願意,然後被拒絕以後也不用馬上挖一個洞。
創意:因為普通的"妳願意嫁給我嗎"顯然不夠刻骨銘心,大家都要搞個驚喜的橋段。你要弄大字報還是氣球的夢幻情節都沒關係。但不要把你的戒指亂放,放在食物裡或是綁氣球之類的都會造成悲劇,還是乖乖地放在口袋就好。
結論:浪漫的求婚很難忘,但很爛的求婚也是一樣的難忘,只要達成目的都一樣會記得(說不定爛的還比較好記)。但其實求婚的重點不是動作地點或是創意,最重要的是你有真誠的問就好了。
(Pennie! 就決定是你了!)
(207 Days) A Memorable Proposal
After you get your diamond ring, you can start to prepare for your proposal.
Gesture: With the influence of the western culture, a bended knee become the standard gesture. This tradition roots in medieval times, when knights were knighted by royals, they kneel as gesture of servitude (which is kind of true to marriage). For girls, the standard gesture is open their mouth and block it with both hands...that did not come from medieval times.
Location: Public place with a lot of people watching and video recording is bad. Because, the girls will more liberated to reject you, and that you will still have some dignity left if she dose reject.
Creativity: The regular “Will you marry me?” is not memorable enough. People come up with acts to surprise the girl. But whatever you do, don’t put your rings with weird places, tiding it to a balloon or put in in her food can lead to some bad outcome, better just keep it in your pockets.
Conclusion: Regardless of the method, she is going to remember it. It might even be more memorable if it was really bad. But actually it’s not about the gesture, location or creativity, just ask the question sincerely, that’s what matters.
(Pennie! I Chose You!)
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